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February 16, 2017
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Career Advice

How to resign the professional way (and don't accept any counter-offers)

February 16, 2017
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Career Advice
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Writing Your Resignation Letter

Once you've made the decision to resign, it's important to communicate it professionally. A well-written resignation letter provides clarity, demonstrates respect, and creates a positive final impression.

Your letter should clearly state your intention to resign and specify your final working day. This removes any uncertainty regarding your notice period and ensures both you and your employer have a shared understanding of your departure date.

There's no obligation to explain why you're leaving. Whether you've accepted a new opportunity, are changing careers, or simply feel it's time for a new challenge, your resignation letter only needs to confirm your decision—not justify it.

Keep your letter concise, positive, and appreciative. Thank your employer for the opportunities you've been given, the experience you've gained, and the support you've received during your employment. It's also worth expressing your willingness to assist with the handover process and help make the transition as smooth as possible.

Leaving on good terms can prove invaluable later in your career. A positive final impression increases the likelihood of receiving a strong reference and helps preserve professional relationships that may benefit you in the future.

Counteroffers: Think Carefully Before Saying Yes

One of the most common responses to a resignation is a counteroffer.

Suddenly, your employer is willing to increase your salary, offer additional benefits, promise promotion opportunities, or address concerns that previously seemed impossible to resolve.

While this can be flattering, it's important to pause before making a decision.

Receiving a counteroffer often provides an enormous confidence boost. It suggests your employer values your contribution and wants to keep you. But it's worth asking a few difficult questions.

  • If your contribution justified a higher salary, why wasn't it recognised before you resigned?
  • Why did it take your resignation for these improvements to be discussed?
  • Has anything fundamentally changed apart from the financial offer?

Money is only one part of job satisfaction.

Remember Why You Started Looking

Very few people begin searching for a new role solely because of salary.

In our experience as recruitment specialists, candidates usually cite several reasons for wanting to move, including:

  • Limited career progression
  • Poor leadership or management
  • Lack of development opportunities
  • Excessive workload
  • Company culture
  • Lack of flexibility
  • Better opportunities elsewhere
  • A desire for new challenges

Ask yourself honestly whether an increase in salary genuinely addresses those issues.

If the underlying reasons remain unchanged, it's quite possible you'll find yourself wanting to leave again within a relatively short period.

Why Employers Make Counteroffers

Counteroffers are not always made purely because an employer suddenly realises your value.

Recruiting, onboarding and training a replacement can be expensive and time-consuming. Losing an experienced employee often creates disruption for projects, colleagues and clients.

Offering more money may simply be the quickest way to avoid immediate operational difficulties while buying time to recruit your replacement or restructure the team.

That doesn't mean every employer acts this way, but it does mean you should carefully consider their motivations alongside your own.

The Long-Term Impact

Accepting a counteroffer can sometimes alter the dynamics of your employment relationship.

Your employer now knows you were prepared to leave.

Some managers will move forward positively. Others may begin questioning your long-term commitment, particularly when succession planning or promotion opportunities arise.

Meanwhile, you've also withdrawn from an employer who believed they had successfully recruited you.

That organisation has likely invested considerable time interviewing candidates, negotiating terms and planning your arrival. Backing out at the last minute may damage that relationship and make future opportunities with that employer less likely.

Careers are surprisingly small worlds, and maintaining your professional reputation should always remain a priority.

Declining a Counteroffer Professionally

If you've decided your original decision was the right one, decline the counteroffer respectfully.

There's no need to reject it immediately.

Instead, thank your employer for their confidence in you and ask for a little time to consider the proposal. Even if you've already made your decision, this demonstrates professionalism and respect.

After giving the matter appropriate consideration, arrange another meeting and explain your decision calmly.

You might say something like:

"I genuinely appreciate your offer and the confidence you've shown in me. I've given it careful consideration, but I've decided to continue with my original decision. I've made a commitment to my new employer, and I believe it's the right next step for my career. I'd like to thank you for everything you've done for me during my time here, and I'm committed to ensuring a smooth transition before I leave."

This approach allows you to decline graciously while preserving goodwill.

Leave With Your Reputation Intact

How you leave an organisation often leaves a stronger impression than how you arrived.

Maintain your professionalism throughout your notice period, continue delivering high-quality work, support your colleagues and complete a comprehensive handover.

Most importantly, trust the decision you made after careful consideration.

Changing jobs is rarely easy, but when handled with honesty, professionalism and respect, it can strengthen rather than damage your professional reputation.

The best career moves are those that not only advance your future but also preserve the relationships and reputation you've spent years building.